Created by Tinder and Bumble's Former Sociologist

Relapy's Founder, Dr. Jess Carbino, has been called "the Dr. Ruth of
the swipe right generation" and "the Nate Silver of online dating."


Sample Services

Our experts specialize in almost every dating and relationship related field. Below are just a few of our areas of expertise.

Dating Online

Many potential mates will spend less than a second scanning through your pictures, bio and messages before swiping or deciding whether to answer.

Bio Drafting

Finding the right words for your bio can be challenging but every word should show off the true you that encourages as many potential matches to swipe right.

Navigating Existing Relationships

Relationships require effort, alignment and, most of all, great communication. Our experts will help you deal with the ups and downs and find deeper satisfaction.

Dealing with Infidelity

Affairs, whether physical or emotional, can have a profound impact on a relationship. Our experts will help you tackle the path ahead.

From DTR to the Ring

Whether it’s trying to define the relationship (DTR) or getting your significant other to propose, our experts will help you navigate the process.

Handling a Breakup

Breakups can stir up many emotions and be tough to navigate without support. Our experts will help you think through next steps like communicating with an ex.

Coping with Loss

After losing a partner, many people struggle to imagine life with a new partner or how to begin. Our experts with help you reenter the market.

Dealing with Divorce

It's often said that divorce is not just a legal process, but a psychological one too. So much emotion is wrapped into the process that it is easy to lose focus.

How it Works


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Select Expert

After signing up, you'll be able to select which expert you want to work with.


Scheduling & Initial Assessment

Schedule your first live session and complete our proprietary online assessment tool.


Start Tailored
Work Plan

Start call/video sessions with your expert and text between meetings.

Meet Our Experts

Our experts graduated with advanced degrees from top universities and have have gone through a rigorous screening
process. They regularly draw from the latest advancements in psychology, mindfulness, meditation, and health & wellness.

Join thousands using our services.

Safe & Confidential

Bank grade security and end-to-end encryption.

Convenient & Easy to Use

Text, call or video chat with our experts without leaving your couch.

Works on Every Device

Works on your iOS/Android device and desktop computer.

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Based on Science

Our team has had exclusive access to the biggest data trove on dating and attractiveness in human history.


People Surveyed


Focus Groups


Profiles Analized


Combined Years of Experience

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